What to do with being in love?

I think you need to get a divorce with your husband, that would be a good start. You obviously don’t love your husband if you went and had an affair and still think about the other guy. Its like you care about him more then you care about your husband. I feel sorry for your husband, he should have filed a divorce by now. Him going after the other guy isn’t the answer, he should have left you because of it and moved on with his life. Your husband could be happily married with someone else right now getting treated like a man should, but instead hes with someone who cares more about another man. Poor guy…