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What to do if your man cheated...

A while back I found out that a girl who said to be my “best-friend” got involved (sexually) with my boyfriend who I was pregnant from at that time… I want to know how to respond to the situation? Who is the guilty one? Can I trust her again? Please I really want your advice!!

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Answer #1

We only know your side of the story. but based on that, no you can not trust her, she boinked your boyfriend, duh, deal breaker. And he boinked her. Deal breaker. They are both cheaters. You can’t trust either of them. He needs to take responsibility for supporting his child. Otherwise, drop both of them, they’re just users. Best of luck.r.

Answer #2

Indeed, that sort of thing just doesn’t happen, you don’t just end up having sex with someone, it takes two to tango, don’t absolve him of responsibility. If he cared for you or respected you he wouldn’t have done such a thing, end of. They are both guilty. It terms of what to do next, that’s up to you. I’d say if yyou get back with the guy though, it will show that you tolerate such a thing, and that you don’t have a great deal of self respect.

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