What to do about my little bro?

My brother will be 15 soon and he’s a bit of a player when it comes to girls. I’ve tried talking to him before and told him he needs to treat girls with respect but he’s just interested in getting a hot girlfriend. Recently he seems to have changed and has found a really nice girl but I’ve overheard him and his friend talking and he said he wants to sleep with her. He’s too young and I dont know what to do. He doesnt know that I heard him talking and I can’t tell my mum because shes had a really tough time lately and has only just got through I I dont want her to crumble again. What can I do about my brother, he’s just too young but I don’t want to argue with him, we’ve come so far together I dont want this to ruin how close we are. Help me!

Answer #1

you should talk to your lil brother because that’s not cool because when he grow up a girl that he really feeling and like is going to do the same for him and he going to know how all those girl fault when he played them…

Answer #2

thanks, its not just him im worried about I dont want his girlfriend to be taken advantage of, I dont want him to sleep with her and then dump her.

Answer #3

my little brother is the same kind of way. he just wants to think hes cool, popular, and think he can get anyone he wants. you really should talk to him though. talk to him about the risks, his girlfriend’s own feelings, what it could do to their realationship (such as getting mroe seriuos, her gettin more protective, and him having to grow up and be a man) and ask him if he even knows what he is doing. PS>>as a favor keep me updated. maybe I could get my bro to stop trying so hard too

Answer #4

I have the same problem with my little sis..she’s growing up and she’s going to do what she wants to do, and honestly who she wants to do. We have to let them make their own mistakes because if we try to protect them or preach to them its only going to make it worse. I would say to look out for him but let him do his own thing because thats what he’s going to do anyways, and if he just wants to have a hot girlfriend he probably wants to impress his buddies too..like “hey look who I’m dating” kinda thing…lol they’re guys, they will never grow out of it till later. hope I could help.

Answer #5

you cant give someone advice who doesn’t want to hear it.

Answer #6

I’m with ashleycanhelp she right you have to let him make his own mistakes…

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