What do I do when I can't stop thinking about him, but I'm with someone else?

Hey Im 17 and I was tlking to this guy for about 3 months we never really messed around b/c im not liek that and he got made for a really stupid reason and broke it off I’ve been going out with his friend now for 2 months but I still like him and care about him sooo much I’ve talked to him nad told him how I feel and he tells me he “doesnt want a relationship” does that really mean he doesnt want one or does that mean he doesnt like me anymore I mean we flirt a lot and we were really close then theres the other guy my b/f now I lob him to death hes such a sweety but I cant stop thinking about my crush im terriffied of being all alone I dont want to break up with my b/f and wind up alone but I dont want to miss out of the chance to be with someone I care about more than anything what should I do about my boys? thanks Darlins

Answer #1

okay well i am kinda in that situation 2 and like it means the kid just doesnt want a relationship at this moment….he likes needs time to sort out his feeling about how he feels about u….and since he knows u like him he doesnt need to worry about what if u dont like him….but he might be worried about how his friend will feel

Answer #2

If you give the guy you like the cold shoulder for a while then you will know if he likes you or not. If he gets jealous then he will come after you and if he has no feelings for you he will not care that you are not around anymore.

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