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What to do about my 5 year relationship?

Lately, I’ve kind feel that I’ve drifted away from my relationship..not physically, but mentally. I cant help but think about where I want my life to take me and how im not so sure I see my boyfriend in that picture. We’re 21 and have been dating since we were 15. I dont know how to tell my boyfriend without hurting him. I love him, but I dont think im in love with him anymore. I think maybe were more friends and shouldnt date anymore.

Any advice??

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Answer #1

Just follow your heart. Why would you be with somebody that you don’t even love mentally. If you try to run your life on a physical relationship then it will go down hill. You need to sit and talk to him and tell him how you feel. Because he might be thinking the same thong but you don’t even know because y’all haven’t talked about it.

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