What to do?

We have been together for 2+ years. His lease is up in 5 months and we are talking about moving in together but he said that he wants to but doesn’t want to ruin our relationship because he has had bad past experiences with an ex before. But he never loved her. He says he loves me and wants to get married and have kids with me but he just wants his own space at home that he can go to and and live life since he is only 26. I don’t get it at all because I am 27 but I have a kid so I see things differently I guess. I just don’t know what to do. I am confused. It feels as if he isn’t serious about our relationship am I over reacting?

Answer #1

well meybe he just really isnt ready so just give it time adn see how he reacts when you guys talk about it again and then you can see if he really is serious or not…

Answer #2

It sounds like a fear of committment. Only 26? When exactly is it time to grow up? Talk to him about it some more, don’t force anything but if he still wants to live the high life, think about what’s important to you. If you want to settle down, then it may be best to let him go, if your fine with taking your sweet time, then leave it as it is.

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