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I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now. We have a 7 year old child together. He has 3 other prior children with his ex-girlfried ages 15, 14 and 8. When I first met him it was hard because he already had children so I helped him raise the two older children because he had custody of them. Then I had my own. He cheated on me the first year I was with him then again year 3. Last year he kicked me out because we were just fighting everyday. We never stopped seeing each other, I stay with him on the weekends. But now his cousin is living here and he is a 21 year old single loser with no job. So now my boyfriend and him are always together and he spends every available minute with him. I love him so much and hes all I know. It is just so hard because he gets mad when I even mention the fact that he spends too much time with his cousin. His older children no longer live with him either so now he lives alone unless I am staying on the weekend. Im so tired of this relationship already. I just feel ever since his cousin came here things are so messed up. I want to let go but Its so hard. What do I do? or more like How do I let go?