What shud I do, there is this girl I like but I dont got guts,help?

Ok, so there’s is this really cute girl that I like but she always hangs out with her gangster friends and, #1 I don’t really have the guts to ask her out because I am scared and #2 if she rejects me, everyone will hear about it and make fun of me. inside, I know she knows I love her and I know she kinda loves me. but I just don’t know how to go about it, I’ve known her for about a year now, but its just that I respect girls too much and so I am scared to ruin our friendship. I also want to know, what can be the outcomes if I get rejected (ex. get slapped or w/e), but then if I get accepted I think I know how to go about it, I just need advice on how to take it slow so I don’t scare her away, I appreciate it guys thx.

Answer #1

Okay, one, if you’ve known her for a year and you’re friends then when you ask her out she probably isn’t going to make a scene about it. If she’s a decent person she’ll let you down nicely and explain her feelings. And don’t be too quick to say you love someone. Love shouldn’t be instant, because though it is a big part of a relationship, there needs to be a solid base of friendship between you.

You shouldn’t be afraid of rejection. Not every pursuit will turn out, it’s just the way it goes. But don’t be afraid! Walk up to her and ask her! I wouldn’t start gushing about how you feel though, hold onto the I love yous until later when you’re sure. Just because you are interested in someone doesn’t mean you have to be in love with them. It can take time and there’s nothing wrong with that, but its different for every person. So just be very careful. Don’t talk about sex or on physical terms with her yet. Maybe holding her hand or whatever, but don’t go nuts. Wait for her to tell you its okay, or you could take the chance and make a move, there’s always a risk :) LOL

Me and my love have been together for about a little less than four months and we’re just starting to consider sex. And that’s just CONSIDER. So just test out the waters before you jump in okay? It’s no fun when nice people like you get hurt :)

Hope I helped..I kinda rambled. :)

Answer #2

if you don’t want to ask her in front of her friends why don’t you get her number and give her a call? just remember… the WORST that can happen is she says no, just be confident and ask her. take into consideration of what zin said, and believe in yourself kiddo

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