Me and my boyfriend seems to get along really well when we are texting one another but when we are on the phone and when we see each other we don't get along that well. I guess its because we are shy or maybe something else and we love one another very much and hope to stay together forever but he's 17 now and am I the only girl he ever liked and I am afraid that he might wanna see others. What should we do?
hey my name is tasha and boys are going to be boys. you really cant believe to much what they say . never give a boy your evereything cause when they are gone you have nothing. im saying never let a boy know your weakness because they will try to use you. but dont stress out over that cause boys are going to do what they want. and you are very young to think about being together forever. im young to im only 19. but he 17 he gone want to party and stuff hes not ready to settle down with one girl he want to get out for a while. thats why i keep mine on a leash. just kidding. but if he is seeing other people you dont need him. unless you want to see other people to. you half to catch him cheating and stuff. you cant go by how you feel. so when you catch him beat his ass. just playing but i would dump him to be honest.
There is not a lot you can do if he chooses to chat with others. We can't control what others do. It's easy to say you love each other when your text messaging or on the phone. That is why spending time in person is so important. You are probably not in love with each other but are in love with online person who you think is giving you all that undivided attention. You have to spend a lot of time together before you determine that it is really love. Both of you are way to young to make a permanent commitment especially with someone you hardly know. So you both will probably date many people in your life time and it won't be until you're quite a bit older that you will commit in a serious relationship.