What : should I tell my brother ?

Hi. I’m 13 years old and my boyfriend is 14 years old. We have been going out ever since the 25th of march and my brother who is 14 years old doesn’t want me to date. If I do, he’s going to call my mom and tell her ( I live with my dad ) bec ause she wants me to date at the age of 15. So I told him that the boy is lying and I do not go out with him. I feel guilty for my brother because he keeps telling everyone that I don’t and im saying the exact opposite. So him and my boyfriend don’t like each other because of me. My boyfriend and I have made out about 8 times and gone on 1 date. I dont know what to do !!! Help ??? Thanx.(:

Answer #1

Although you want to be with your boyfriend and I understand that, lying about it won’t help the situation any. The truth always comes out one way or another. Until it does, or when it does, it’s going to be a lot worse than it would be if you were to be honest.

If it’s something you have to lie about, it’s something you probably shouldn’t be doing.

Answer #2

your brother believes you, isn’t that enough? you see, you’re lying yet your brother trust you. you still have 2yrs, it’s gonna be long tho, but try to wait and maybe when it’s time your parents will love your boyfriend and have a greater relationship. :) just my opinion.

Answer #3

Your brother even though he’s looking out for you should have no control over your love life. the choice is yours to make no one else’s

Answer #4

older brothers can be very overprotective, for example on tuesday night I thought my sister was doing things with this guy over in the corner, I was with my friends, all happy and hyper, and I was going to kill someone. figured out it wasnt my sister and I carryed on with my night. anyway, your bro should have no say in your lovelife, just tell him everythings fine, and when your 15 just tell them if your still with your guy. if you love him and he loves you, no1 can come between you. yes you are slightly younger than what I thought, which is why I say, do things with precaution, and think before acting, I know some stuff just happens, and when it does you can’t stop. or at least you dont want to. just take it slow and everything will be fine. =)

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