What should I say to him?

hes a guy, guys are very weird. maybe he liked you and thats why he said he didnt want to hurt you, aswell as being flirty. but guys are pigs and think with their co*ks. I dont really know why you want to write to him, it’s been 2 months, if he wanted to talk he would have contacted you.

maybe he needs to space to reflect on his feeling? it would sound a bit desperate if you were to txt him asking him how he was, etc etc. and im not saying that in a mean way either. just guys are weird, if you are too clingy they run a mile… they need space. also if you do txt him and he doesnt text back then you will be really dissapointed. if you are more casual about it, then id say thats a good thing, then he wont feel under pressure to write back, if you pressure him he will run away and have more reason to ignore you.

maybe you should wait until he contacts you, and if he doesnt then get over him, you are just waisting time and hanging around for no reason, and no guy is worth that.

option a: “hey, how are you? (insert one more line with a more specific question so that he doesnt simple reply back with “good”)

option b: move on? I know its tough, especially if you have had a lot of chemistry and good times with this guy. but you should really ask yourself, “can I do better?”

let me know if you need anymore advice! -emma

I don’t really see it as much of a desperation because I haven’t tried talking to him in over two months and I haven’t seen him in three months. Also I only care for him as a friend and just going to try and see how hes been doing because he went to college. Thats all and then I’m going to flee away lol XP

I just don’t know how exactly to word things or say things for not hearing from someone in awhile.

Thanks everyone

he likes you more than a friend and most likely wants to be you’re boyfriend