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what should I say to a boy when... girls help please

when they ask me out and I dont really want to go out with them… in my school I’m like the cool girl and pretty girl there… there are other pretty girls but they mostly ask me out … I go to an anger issue school where kidds go for a school placement when they need help on some things soo like it not a high school or a normal school … theres like about 150 students in my school 1st though 12th graders …soo anyway like all the boys ask me out and I really dont want to go out with them and I really dont want to hurt there feelings I’m pretty cool with almost al of them but what should I ask them when I dont want to go out with them without feelings being hurt!!! thanks for your advice

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Answer #1

Tell them you’re gay. Then nobody’s feelings get hurt.

Answer #2

You could just tell them straight up that you don’t think you have enough in common or that you don’t really want to date anyone right now. Or if you’re friends then you could always just say you think it would ruin your friendship if you guys dated and it didn’t work out.

Answer #3

unfortunatly you cant make an omlit with out breaking eggs but you can be tactful.

when a boy askes you out and you dont want to simple say to him

“ thats so sweet of you to ask me out, but im not looking for a boyfriend at the moment and I just dont feel the same way about you, it wouldnt be fair to lead you on like that, I’m sorry”

then you must walk away from him dont engage in conversation as you will both just feel awkward.

its a polite let down that spares feelings

hope that helps good luck

Answer #4

Just tell them you dont feel the same way then there aren’t really any more questions to be asked, but count yourself lucky to be in the situation where lots of lads are asking you out (:

Answer #5

Maybe you haven’t made your anger issues clear enough to them? Hmmmm? Actually telling them your life is too much a mess right now to date might be pretty believable.

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