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What should I do with my sister-in-law??

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I'm tired of my sister in law. she is my husband's sister and I just can't deal with her anymore. I am a vary patient person, but everything has a limit. She comes over to my house every weekend. I don't really care about that, what I care about is that people is being telling me that when I am not around she will sit on my husbands lap and she will be hugging him all the time. I am not a jealous person, but it get an upset stomach when I hear that. I have talked to my husband and he doesn't like what she does neither. but he is afraid of hurting her feelings. there has been a few times where we have tell each other some sort of mean things, (that happens when she drives me crazy). when they are home and my husband starts talking to me, she will start yelling and screaming at him, like a crazy person. Telling him things that we just don't know where she gets them from. trying to get his attention when he is with me. this girl is 20 years old and she is barely getting out of high school, she doesn't work, she has a boyfriend that she uses only for his money. (she never invites him to parties with the family) last week she stayed at my house for 4 days. on the forth day I had had it with her. I didn't see her until the afternoon and all I did, was opened the door for her, (she was outside and rang the bell) took my dogs to the back (cause they can get out) and went into my room becuase we were getting ready (me and husband) to go to the movies. well she made a big scene about it and said that she was leaving, my husband was like ok bye. But before she left she told my husband that I didn't say hi to her and that she wasn't going to be standing my attitude. and she left so I didn't care, to my big surprise she came back 3 days later. Not even asking if she could come over. And she didn't talk to me ( which I don't care, I am as happy as I can be when I am not close to her). But I told my husband that I wanted to go to stay at my moms house, while she was there, and I just think that that is sad, me trying to get out of my own house, because of her. this is not the only thing that she has done, she's done a lot of other stuff. but my questions is what should I do, I have tried everything, and I don't want to get her out of my house, but if she keeps it up, it may happened soon. Any help willl be apreciated. Thanks