What should I do with my flirting boyfriend?

I need advice on what to do in this situation.

I love my boyfriend and he’s a great guy in many ways. The only thing is when he hangs out with his friends, they always go to the bar. I go with them most of the time. What upsets me is seeing girls walk up to them and flirt. My boyfriend stands there and allows it! I feel jealous and like he is disrespecting me by allowing this! However, it is always the girls that approach, never him, he never buys them drinks or gets their number or makes out with them. It just bothers me cause he flirts with them in front of me!

Why do I think like this? I need advice. What should I do with this?

Answer #1

omg girl, by boyfriend was the same way. but I had some friends who also noticed. they approached him and said he better stop flirting with other girls or I would dump him (I was actually unaware that they did this until he came to me about it) he asked me if it bothered me. even though it did, I (poorly) pretended like it didnt. eventually he just stopped. now he even tell girls who approach HIM that he has a girlfriend and they should just lay off a little. just talk to him about it or get one of your friends to tell him hope this helped:)

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