What should I do with my ex?

I cant get my ex off my mind. Even when im with my new boyfriend, my ex is all I can think about. My current boyfriend makes me happy, and I know hed never hurt me…but I just cant get over my ex. I wonder sometimes if I shohuld break up with my current boyfriend just to try to fix stuff with my ex…but he cheated on me. And more than once. But I cant let go of the old feelings and they only still seem to grow stronger…help please

Answer #1

I have the same problem but 1 thing stay with current boyfriend!!! thats what im going to do

Answer #2

in time, your feelings might fade. I know how you feel and trust me, it does take time. but once you find a guy that makes you feel the way he made you feel and better, every feeling you once felt for him with disappear

Answer #3

…he cheated on me. and more than once.

Keep that in mind.

You must have some SEVERE insecurity issues, to even CONSIDER going back to a guy like that.

P.S. - Is this the same guy who was locked up; and you tried to ruin his friendship with his best friend, by feigning intoxication and inviting the friend over for sex?

Answer #4

DON’T GO BACK TO HIM!!! I promise in time those feelings will fade…don’t let him treat you like that I promise you are much to good for that BS…but also I don’t think you should have a boyfriend just to take your mind off your ex. good luck

Answer #5

He obviously was your first, and those are the ones we NEVER forget, but rarely do we ever end up with our first love. We have relationships to learn from. They teach us how to love, and about respect, and your boyfriend didnt show you either of those. Your not being fair to your current boyfriend, because you are still holding feelings for your ex. I had a hard time getting over my ex, but the worse thing you can do is dwell on it every single day. You can get over a lost love, but only if your willing. You must consciously block him from your heart and mind. It’s not easy at first, but it does get easier. Once you evict him for good, you can move on to the passion and happiness you deserve.

Answer #6

Hey, I’m not real great for giving advice on these topics, I’m not what you’d call a “great” boyfriend myself. But I’ll give it a shot, if you still have feelings for your ex, let’s be honest are they feelings of love or do you just miss the ole’ days? I can understand if you miss the good things, but if he cheated on you even just once, do you really think he’s deserves you? I certainly don’t. People don’t change, only their intensions… I should know, lol, I’m the epitamy of everything you described of your ex. I cheat, I hurt, I haven’t changed and I highly he will, try and make things work with your current he’s seems like a far better man than your ex… I hope it helped, and I hope you don’t have anymore bad love experiences, best of luck…

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