What should I do if my b.f is using condom?...?

why is it that people say all the time that getting married before having sex is the right thing as getting married will not stop you from getting a STI or STD, that’s BS as if 2 people are clean from the start may be they never had sex before and using a condom will not prevent you from getting some STI or STD next people will say if you are married you will not get a cold, how uneducated some people in the world, marriage is just a agreement of 2 people to be together as one not a way to stop you from getting ill or stopping you from having a baby lets fact the facts people get married to have a baby not get married to stop having a baby.

for me I hate condoms I hate the smell and I hate every thing about them I think if you use one its come back to 2 things you use a condom if you just want to play sex games with your lover many times and the man can get off or you just want to have fun with some latex. but yes they will help you from getting some that’s some STI but for me I never like to use them I get a test and ask the girl for a test. I know some friend in china as I live here and one girl got HPV from some black man and she use condoms all the time but condom dont cover every part of your mans body if he has HVP or some other thing on his body you will get it no matter how many condoms you use, the fact they never tell you about all this is that some things they put on condoms can weaken your immune system, I have read that back in the 1970’s they start to put many sort of things on condoms to prevent STI and HIV like nox9 and that have stop using Nox9 for some and in fact if you use a lot of condoms over a week like I know some men in Australia did may be more then 20 in a week 1 they had a weaken your immune system. 2 the girl had cervical erosion so, I am not a doctor but I think it would be good to have a look on many web pages about the lubes and chems they put in condoms and see if it will hurt your body before you use one or 2,3,4,5,6

you should use a condom it’d be unwise not to. I’ve not had sex yet either. My boyfriend and I are waiting until we get married because sex just complicates things and if we are married we just think it’d be better.

A condom is fine. If ya want additional protection you can get birth in a suppository form. One is called Semicid. Do a search on it for more info. Since this is going to be your first time, be sure he understands that he needs to go slow. Also, you might want to use some lubrication like KY Gel. Best of luck, I hope all goes well.

Some people don’t know how to read a question. The question wasn’t on how YOU feel about sex before marriage, it was how those that answer feel about them using a condom.

if you want more protection get on the pill. make sure that your guy turns you on and makes you wet, in order for him to slide in. and yea tell him to go slow as your not used to something going up there. CONDOMS are great- you wont get sti’s or std’s lol and if he comes it dont go inside u. one thing I will wanr you is that they Can break so be careful. id tell him to pull out the first time because you never know.

funmail me if you have any other questions about it.

make sure you use a condom, and if you’re nervous that something could go wrong with that go to the doctors and get put on the contraceptive pill. remember you have to be on it a week to begin with for it to work.

use a condom for sure. it makes it easier for you because of the lubrication and its safer. it protects you from nasty disease things, not saying your boyfriend has them or anything, just in general. and if youre still worried and wanna be extra safe I would go on the pill also. just remember you need to take the pill for a week before it goes in effect. good luck!

If you use a condom, also use spermicide. To avoid pregnancy, use a rubber/latex as opposed to an animal skin condom. Animal skin tends to be more porous allowing sperm through. As for the condom getting stuck in the vagina, there’s a simple solution that should already be in place, and that is to have him hold onto the base of the condom as he’s pulling out. Also, make sure that you don’t double condom (Yes, some people do this thinking it’ll be double protection. In reality, the friction between condoms tears holes allowing semen through). Check the expiration date on the condom, and use some lube just to ensure friction doesn’t tear the condom.

As soon as he gets hard, that’s when you put on the condom, and make sure he does it properly. If the condom has a little reservoir tip for the collection of semen, make sure to leave at least 1/4 of an inch of the condom empty for that’s where the sperm will collect.

If you have a feeling there might have been a tear in the condom, have him pull out and replace the condom immediately.

If you are going to have sex for the first time, you MUST use a condom every time you have sex! Condoms are there to help protect you from sexually transmitted infections or diseases, and also to prevent you from becoming pregnant. It is not worth the risk unless you are married/comitted to this partner for the rest of your life.

Take care and good luck! :)

Yeah, no problem in that. & also, use ONE condom at a time. Use the Plan-B pill after if you’re still scared of getting pregnant.

Hi,

Condoms only are OK, if you know to use them correctly.

But if you put them on the wrong way, they can rip open. Best is to get a box of condoms and read the instructions on it, before you even think about getting undressed. If you’re not sure what to do, get one out of the box, grab a banana and practise putting it on. You can do the trying and testing alone, if your boyfriend will think it weird. But you’ll know to handle the thing.

If you use condoms, he’ll have to get ‘out’ directly after he came. Else the rubber can get stuck inside you when his penis relaxes (like pillows said^^). Means you’ll be missing fun if he comes faster than you.

If you want to be very sure you dont become prego, get additional protection (You want to. You’re a teenager). There’s semen-killing gel. Be sure you get a brand that goes fine with a condom. Condoms are about 90% safe. Means if 100 girls have sex regularly for one year and use condoms, 10 of them will get prego. Gel only is 70% safe. Gel + Condom is 97%. Means of the 10 girls who’d get prego with only a condom, 7 are protegted by the gel when its gel+condom. The pill is 98%. If you take both, pill and condom, that makes you about 99,8% safe from pregnancy. Thats about the best you can reach.

And there’s one more thing: Condoms protect you from nasty diseases. So unless you know you boy is totally healthy and you know the same about all his ex-girlfriends as well as all the boyfriends they had before… always use a condom.