What should I do if I like him, and I have a boyfriend?

Im lost I dont know what to do. I have a boufriend, but it doesnt even feel like we are going out. I started to like my best friend who is a guy. And me and him liked eachother for quite some time he has had girlfriends in the past and I was okay with it and didnt get jealous. But this time I did. He got back together with his ex. And I was just about to end it with my boyfriend but then now the guy I like has a girlfriend. I told him I was about to brake up with my boyfriend for him just now and he said he was really sorry and felt bad. He still likes me. What should I do? Me and my boyfriend are still together. Shoule I brake up with him? What should I do about the guy I like? Can anyone help me??!?

Answer #1

Well, you’re just 13, sweet-heart. You don’t HAVE to have a boyfriend. Just break up with your guy (especially since you don’t feel close to him) and be single and on the look-out for someone that you like and likes you.

Answer #2

Ok in my opinion, go ahead and break up with your boyfriend now. Because you were just gonna leave him anyways. You only didn’t because the other guy got back with his ex. Right now he’s just a convenience for you so you don’t have to be alone. It’s not fair to him. If the feeling isn’t there and its for another guy especially. Leave the one you’re with now.

Second, leave the other boy alone for right now. He has a girlfriend. You don’t need to get involved with him and it’ll only cause problems between him and his girlfriend. If they end let it be because they didn’t work out not because you had to split them up. Don’t stop being his friend but put some boundaries up to prevent his girlfriend from being jealous.

It’s a sticky situation, and I don’t think you’re gonna like my advice… but my advice I think will bring the best results and the least drama.

Answer #3

dont lead a guy on its just not fair tell him you want to break up and then if your bestfriend really likes you he’ll break up with the other girl for you stuff happens if he dosent choose some one else

Answer #4

So the guy that you like still likes you but he has a girlfriend? Do you lie your boyfriend? Meaning that everytime you talk to him, he text or whatever you don’t roll your eyes, or want to end the conversation. Because if it feels that you guys are not going out anymore then there must not be that connection you guys had at first. If the guy that you like, likes you back, and he is single and is willing to give up everything for you, and you to love him, and feel that the relationship with yourbouyfriend is nothing. Then yeah go ahead and break up with him, but don’t just let him know that is over and that is that, let him know what you have been feeling in you guyses reationship and all.

Answer #5

first talk to your boyfreind determine wether you actually love this guy and if you want a relationship with him or if your just using him/stringing him along untill you find soemone better if you dont love him, leave him he has a right to know if your not interested anymore so if your not, tell him also tell the guy you like you actually like him and tell him you would break up with your boyfreind for him ask him if he wants to be in a relationship with you and if hes taken, ask him if he would leave her for you or not if its a yes maybe give it a go if its a no, wait untill hes single at least either way though, it would be a good idea to break it off with your boyfreind if your considering being with soemone else/other people

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