What should I do if I like a boy but he is popular and I'm not?

This boy is really popular. I am not very popular at our school, but I am popular in my group of friends. He is very athletic and fit. I am not very athletic and kind of chunky.

Answer #1

wow this is sooo like me. in jr.high I wasn’t chucky.. but overweight actually. hmmm I was 180pounds for a girl the height of 5”2 to be exact. I had very few friends and I never even thought about liking mr.popular because we were in totally complete different worlds. so I went to school with the most popular guy in school for all of jr.high, and the whole time, he didnt even know I existed.

when I entered high school, I started dieting and lost a ton of weight. 60pounds to be exact. so I look like a completely different person. sooo mr.popular, started to spark interest in me and he grew to like my looks very much. what a jerk, when he finally talked to me, he was shocked finding out we went to the same school for 5 years. I was even in his gym class every year, what a jerk. but yeah, I went on one date with him, and he turned out to be a loser. all he wanted as A-hole.

sooo yeah.. I went from being a loner, to getting the most popular guy in high school. but what I’m trying to say is… dont fall head over heels for a guy who only cares about people with the same social status as him. if he’s a jerk to begin with, he’ll always be one. take it from me… just forget about him.

Answer #2

well make sure you that you dont just like him becuse of his popularity status. sometimes people think they like osmeone but later figure out that they were only drawn into their coolness. it sounds like you to have nothing in common so I dont know how it would ever work out anyways. but if you have actual really feelings of him then see what happens

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