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I have been going out with this lad for 3 weeks and I can never see him cause my parents don't like him so I never get to see him but this might sound crazy cause we have only been with each other 3 weeks but we love each other.
He tells me that we are not getting anywhere because i cont see him but i do try i even lie to my mum sometimes to go and see him WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Ok, for one thing hun>you cant possibly fall in love in 3 weeks. Love takes time to grow, no matter how you feel right now.
Everyone is always saying "just sit your parents down and talk to them". Well it isnt that easy. Some parents are very strict, especially when it comes to their daughters, and boys. I dont know how old you both are, but you are living under their roof, and you need to abide by their rules whether you like them or not. Lying to your mom is not the thing to do. If she finds out, you could ruin any chance you have of being with this guy. If he truly likes you, he wouldnt pressure you into sneaking out. Just wait things out for awhile, and every now and then kind of bring up the subject of your bf. Your not the first person that this has ever happened to. My biggest advice would be to NOT let your bf tell you how things should be. Its not his house, or his rules!
listen you should try to explain to your parents that you cant choose who you fall in love with! i mean if i could choose it i would have stopped a lot of horrible situations! and maybe you need to sit down and talk to your guy about why your parents wont let you see each other and exress to him how much you love him! i know it sounds corny but im sure it will work!
set ur parents down and tell them how much u like this guy and how much he makes u feel good inside. also tell them that u dont want them to like him ur the one whos liking him . another thing tell them that u wanna explore how love is like !
Why doesn't your mom want you to see him?
Maybe it's a good and logical reason.
