What should I do about this [friend] im really confused?

My new motto in life is forgive and forget ok so my best friend or ex best friend whatev stopped talkin to me and just started to ignore me I didnt want to go back to bein bitter like I was bfore so I forgave her but now shes insultin me and laughin at me I used to be really regretful and always holdin ggrudges but I’ve changed for my self [had stress probs]ok so my question is should I just start ignorin her or just get her out my life or should I just keep forgivin her and forget I think I no the answer but let me no what you think

Answer #1

I agree just ignore her shes not worht your time and she obvasly has someself esteem issues had a friend like that before but I got tired of her trying to tell me what to do

Answer #2

if shes insulting you and ignoring you and making fun of you then ignore her.. let her go.. shes obviously not worth it to keep forgiving and forgetting.

Answer #3

I agree with baybaybay09 Forgive her but do not forget I would tell her look this is how its gotta be you did this and this and I forgave you but then you did this so now I am going to forgive you again but I am also going to protect myself against this kind of treatment in the future by not associating with you, tell her you are not mad at her but do not like the way she treats you and that you can not be friends with someone who thinks it is ok to mistreat you and that you do not think that is how friends are supposed act.

Answer #4

If you keep forgiving her she’s just gonna keep walking all over you. Let her go, she obviously isn’t your friend. You can forgive but there is no such thing as forgetting! Thats a very popular theory but its only a theory. Unless your able to have your mind erased forgetting is not an option. Occasionally when something happens that is small its easy to forget but theres always the chance that it can pop back up. But when its something thats important or very hurtful there is no forgetting,not really. In life you have to learn to not let people walk all over you or continually hurt you otherwise it will just be a never ending cycle throughout your life! My personal motto would be forgive but never forget!

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