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Okay me and my husband have been together for 6 years and have 2 boys together and I have 2 girls previous relationship and latley I have been cheating on my husband because he mentally abuses me he calls me bitch retard fat a** ( and im not fat lol) pathetic he just down grades me even in fornt of our kids so I have been talking to a younger guy and he isnt like settle down type but I wanna leave so I can be happy but something is holding me back from just going but I really want to its so weird any one have any ideas please help me I would appreciate it :)
you need to talk to your husband about this perhaps in a public place (but away from people so there not walking past you) so he probably wont physically abuse you or emotionally abuse you too much, and tell him that what hes doing is ruining your relationship, FIRST tell him how you feel about what hes says to you and how you hate it and how its going to ruin the marriage, then find a way to break it to him that BECAUSE of the way hes treating you, youve cheated on him. you shouldnt have cheated but its understandable if hes constantly abusing you and making you feel like sh*t. wether you want to make your marriage work is up to both of you and if you both feel like its worth trying again otherwise end it
Most guys like that will never change. My dad was that way to my mom. That's how I learned not to be. I would say something to him. But don't get your hopes up he will change.
Talk to him and tell him how you feel..I think its best to just leave him.
