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My boyfriends in jail for the last 5 months. He finally wrote to me telling me he loves and misses me. Should I wait for him? It could be a really long time.
Listen to the stories of others but know that the burden is yours alone to bear. Whatever choice you make will be the right choice for you. This is not a time to feel obligation or guilt but a time to be self-seeking, concerned with your life and your future.
My fiancé has been away for a long four months. He is facing time in federal prison for mistakes that he has made and we will be facing an additional two years apart. I have decided to stay only because he had ceased his illegal activities just a few months prior to his arrest. He wanted to start a new life; one free of having to look over his shoulder each day. Unfortunately it was too late. The DEA had been investigating him for a year and had enough to convict.
This was my decision and so far it has not been an easy one. The holidays are lonely. Good times are difficult because I am unable to share them and hard times are made even harder because he is not there to comfort me.
If you decide to stay I hope you have loved ones who will support you. If you decide to leave know that there is a world of women in the same or similar situations that understand.
My best to you.
I really can't tell you to wait for him cause I don't know the kind of relationship you guys have. And it depends how long he will be in there. But if he will be out soon and you love this man, then why not wait for him and support him while he's locked up. Another thing, if you're not sure about you and him, please don't wait. You don't want to waste your time and wait then when he gets out you and him doesn't work or he might just don't want to be bother with you. So sit and think about what you want and what's best for you. Please pray!
my boyfriend is in jail too. He just went in a week ago and could be in there for a year maybe more. if you really love him you will stay with him. That's what I am doing
depends on what he did...but for real I would dump him and find a man who has not been and is not going to go to jail...good luck