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What should I do about my boyfriend ?

Me and my boyfriend were going out for almost 2 years. 2 days after we got together he cheated on me He didnt tell me till 8 months after that, And I got major trust and insercuritry issues over it, So I fogave him, but I then majorly believed he would never do anyhting to hurt me, or he wouldnt lye. I asked him if hed ever done any thing with a girl in drama (while he was doing a drama preformance a few months ago) he replied no. I asked him yesterday, he said oh I don’t know He obvoiusly did know because he told me today he did And it killed me. After he cheatred on me the first time he promised hed never do it again, and I had compleate faith in him, I believed every word that came out of his mouth untill yesterday. Now I cant trust him and it kills me to know he lyed. So I broke up with him, were still mates, And hes begging me to stay with him and his mates are all havin ago at me for braking up with him I just cant trust him, I want to be with him but I cant trust him

Did I do the right thing, or should I give him another chance ?? X

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Answer #1

I think that you definitely did the right thing as well. Trust is a very important part to a relationship, and If your partner keeps breaking your trust and hurting you, I think that you would be better off in the long run with someone else who will treat you a million times better and WILL consider your feelings before doing something like that. Being with this boy when he keeps lying and cheating isn’t fair to yourself at all. You deserve better than that from someone.

When it comes to him and his friends, ignore them. He kind of did it to himself, so there’s really no room for any of them to speak. It’s not any of their business, either. You did what you felt was right and I think that you should be proud of yourself for not taking more of the lying and cheating. Just focus some time on yourself now and allow yourself to feel better.

Take care.

Answer #2

He cheated on you, and you’ll NEVER fully trust him again. You did the right thing to dump him, now you need to MOVE ON. If his friends have issues with that, then they’re just as stupid as he is…

Actually, I wouldn’t recommend being friends with him, either.

Answer #3

You completely did the right thing. If he cared for you he wouldn’t have done such a thing, he would have known how much it would have hurt you. He sounds really childish, so does his friends. It is his behaviour that resulted in the breaking up, not you. You’ve shown great strength and self respect in getting rid of him, as much as it hurts your heart, you know in your head you have to move on. He will be no good for you in the long term.

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