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Okay so I broke up for my boyfriend for another guy. clearly for good reason. And now my ex boyfriend cracks joes at his friends all the time saying ohh I cheated on him(which DID NOT) and im chubbyand flat chested(and every says im not) && I reallly hate him now...do you think he sayin this cause hes hurtt?? and do you think its a good idea to go up to him tommarow and slapp da sh!t outaa him? I really do hate him
So, what exactly will she gain by slapping him? Its just going to piss him off. His friends are going to start clowning him that he got punked by a girl and he is really going to give her a hard time. If he is a douche, he will hit her back. She will get in trouble at school and she will be known as the "flat chested slut that slapped her ex"! I'm not quite sure how that will do any good. Men are not supposed to put their hands on women, however that does not give women to put their hands on men unless in physical self defense. This situation does not warrant a physical response. You are going to have to live your entire life with people talking trash about you and talking behind your back. Being on the defense all the time is just miserable!
When you start working are you going to slap your co-workers or boss because they are taking trash about you and spreading rumors? If your answer is yes, I apologize in advance for giving you too much credit. You will quickly find yourself out of a job and in an abundance of assault and battery charges!
Just ignore him and leave him alone. He's only doing it partly out of frustration, and partly to get a rise out of you. Once he notices you really don't care, he will eventually lose interest and stop it. Remember though, undesirable behaviors usually get worse before they get better. He's going to keep trying to push your buttons for a while. Stand your ground and act like it doesn't bother him. Why should you give him the satisfaction of getting to you? Why should you lower yourself and physically retaliate? Fighting is trashy and unattractive. Trust me, most guys do not find that to be an attractive quality in girls.
so jelous! id slapp the shit outta him! embarres him infront of his friends! dont just 'ignore' him your not 'lowering yourself' hes embarresing you saying your fat & flat chested so embarrses him back im sorry but in my world if a boy takes the piss you dont sit and take it!!
yes!!! he is jelous and pissed..normal. I did the same thing and now he acts wayyy too fricken cool. hatin' it. just comfront him and maybe he'll forgive you if not. slap that shit and ignore or play dirty back :) but it sucks it not you its him
it is probably because he's hurt but slapping him probably isnt going to help so try talking to him about how this is making you feel and try to get him to understand your reasons for ending the relationship
He is mad and he is traying to get you back, but slapping him will only bring you more problems so just let it be and be whit your new boyfriend...
GOOD LUCK:)
