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Ok so, before I ask this. Please do not come back to me with life advice about my proffession, it’s my choice and I won’t listen. This is a serious question and answers from adults only please. I work part time in the adult industry, and I have a client who is majorly into age play. He likes the whole teacher/little girl thing. This is a common fantasy I think but I have one major concern; He is actually a school teacher in a mixed gender school. Does this mean he is a risk to real kids or do you think it’s a boundary he wouldn’t cross given that he pays to ‘pretend’. It’s playing on my mind so opinions welcome. The last thing I want to happen is he gets into my pussy and then thinks he should go for an underage girl afterwards.

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Dan Savage covered this topic recently, and worded it much better than I could, so I’m going to quote directly from his article:

‘’All you need to concern yourself with is consent—obtaining consent before anything goes down, maintaining a state of consent once things get going. So are you a consenting adult? Is your partner a consenting adult? Yes and yes? Then you’re free to do whatever the hell you want in the sack—and that includes pretending that one of you isn’t a consenting adult.

Adults can safely and ethically explore through fantasy and role-play things that we wouldn’t (because they’re wrong) or couldn’t (because they’re impossible) do in reality. A nice girl who would never dream of ever actually owning a human being can pretend to own a sex slave without having to forfeit her “nice girl” status; a decent guy who would never commit the crime of rape can pretend to rape a partner with rape fantasies without having to forfeit his “decent guy” status. The same goes for age play.’’

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=3150577

Personally, I don’t think his profession should enter into the consideration. Would you have trouble acting out foot fantasies if your client were a podiatrist?

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