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Should I be concerned with her coming to his party?

o.k my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2yrs 1mth. he will be celebrating his bday in dec. with a jam and he’s inviting all his friends including his ex girl (which im not happy with) but she’s is his bff. she recently broke up with her boyfriend because he cheated on her again! anyways, she asked my boyfriend if he was still dating me and he told her yes.. her remarks was “ you know I could take you away from her right”? but he made it clear to her thats not possible because he luvz me dearly. my question is should be I concerned with her coming to his party? if so how can I make that clear to him? should I even be threaten by her?

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Answer #1

Just let her go to the party if she want.Stay with your boyfriend.Make sure that girl wont do anything.But since your boyfriend say he love you dearly,then you dont need to worry so much.But keep in mind that accident may happen.Good luck! ^^

Answer #2

No you shouldnt. Since she made a move, thinking she has him wrapped around her finger and with the drop of a hat she thinks he’ll go back to her, she made her move becos she has no one else. But only if he made it perfectly clear he is with you now and she has no chance again, everything is fine.

But if she keeps trying to get him back just to annoy you, you have the right to say something and have a problem with them speaking. If its just a one off and he made it clear and its all friends and no more, fair enough.

But just see how much further she takes it, if she tries flirting with you infront of him and stuff like that, then you can say something. But if she got the hint then dont worry about her, you have his heart not her.

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