What should I do?

Well ummm I’ve gone out with this girl like 20-30 times in 3 years and we are still together but the thing is I cant get over it and my friends keep pressuring me to break up with her.

What should I do: Stay with her? or break up with her?

Answer #1

Doesnt breaking up 20-30 times in 3 years tell you anything? That ISNT love, and it isnt a healthy relationship, no matter how you look at it. You two just are not compatible, and your friends keep telling you to break up, because they are sick, and tired of your roller coaster relationship! Its not because they are interested in her. Relationships are not constant fighting, breaking up, and making up.

Getting on solid ground being in a relationship that swings like a monkey in a tree will tap your emotional energy. Plus, how can you really trust someone when neither of you knows when the next ax is going to fall? Worse, your flaky behavior could cost you the respect of your friends. If you and your partner can figure out how to deal with conflicts in a healthy way, great! If not, it’s probably time to get off the Big Dipper.

Answer #2

bless you, it sounds as though you may have fallen in love with her, hence why you are torn so much, dont let peer presure destroy your relationship, your mates probably miss you when you are with her, so try and includer her with your mates when you all hang out together, but find time to be with alone best of luck

Answer #3

I agree with pinkroxy1151

Keep her if you like/love her. Your friends aren’t dating her. You are. Friends are easy to get. Love is much harder to find

Answer #4

honestly if I was your girlfriend & we have been dating about 3 years I’d be heartbroken. are you friends the one dating her ? listening to her ? kissing her ? & all that ? uh no. so keep her if thats what your heart chooses. never know one of them mite like her & they jst trying to get her for them selves;]

-tay<3

Answer #5

Friend’s pressure never can affact a real person’s real love.

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