Should I let my Mom back in my life?

what should I do my mom has been popping in and out of my life every since I can rememeber I love her so much and I wish she loved me 2 but I know that wont happen until she gets off drugs she wasnt there ween I’ve needed her most shes staying with my aunt until she finds someone else to use do you think I should let her back in my life

Answer #1

I would always keep contact and do what I could to help her - she’s the only Mom you’ll ever have - she’s Family - it is possible for people to change, I believe best through seeking and finding personal Faith - I’ve seen first-hand, lives changed instantly - I wish you and your Mom every happiness !!

Answer #2

Help her with her probablems and yes you should let her back in your life because God said to Honor Thy Father And Thy Mother!:)

Answer #3

hunn thats really up to you no one can decide that for u is she getting help? if so when shes better try it (if you want) do u belive in second chances? but talk to her bout it tell her whats new wit you and let her back a little at a time hope I helped=)

Answer #4

Take this from someone who has had the same thing happen, but with my dad. My dad was a part of my life for 14 years and out of nowhere he decides to not talk to me anymore. It’s a little different then your story but it feels the same. If my dad tried to talk to me anymore, it would take a lot more than sorry to change my feelings. I wouldn’t let him back in my life just because of what he did. Yeah you need a mom, but doesn’t it hurt worse if she comes in and out.. It’s hard to say you don’t want her. Your mom does love you, you know that deep down. Just think hard about it. Think about how it could effect you. It could cause you to become depressed. & many other things. Just think about it. Goodluck with whatever you choose though.<33

Answer #5

I would keep her in your life.

You don’t know the problems that she may have endured in her life that have caused her to be the way she is, so show her moral support.

You may not be able to change her but your support can be a big help to her changing herself.

We don’t get to choose our parents or our circumstances when we are young, so we just have to do the best we can.

Good Luck!

Answer #6

If she is getting help then take a second chance I guess. But if she is doign the same bullsh*t honey you just have to accept the fact she cant be tehre in your life no matter how much you love her… you have to let her go sometime… just think like this : “If my own mother wont take steps to change herself for me, then she doesnt even deserve me at all”. that will help. :] good luck

Answer #7

its worth a shot because I let mine back in but theres the good times and the bad so msg me and ill tell you more

Answer #8

nope

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