What should I do?

I’m totally lost right now. I’m 18 almost 19, in college, completely broke, and I need to escape. I don’t know what to do…this may seem like a bit of a rant, but I have no one else I can talk to…sorry in advance. My family doesn’t appreciate anything I do…I work my butt off and I get no “thanks…” I just get yelled at and told by my twin sister, that I shouldn’t live here anymore. Like today, I go to class early in the morning and come home late afternoon, I’m starving and come home and the kitchen is dirty, I mean dirty. Dishes everywhere, garbage everywhere, and I walk down the hall to take my mom mail and her and my sister, who are home all day everyday, are doing NOTHING! The least one of them could do is clean the kitchen! I mean this happens all the freakin time! They do nothing and I’m stuck cleaning up their crap without a single “thank you” but all I get in return is I’m a psycho, I’m a cow, I don’t deserve this and that…you know stuff like that. Then my sister went into the kitchen, while I was cleaning it btw, and starting cooking! with the things I just cleaned…and on top of that, she left a mess. She only made food for her and my mother…I don’t understand why they treat me like this. Is it ok for me to feel upset about this? I need to get out, but I’m a full time student and don’t have time for a job, but I’m going to get one, I need the money so that I can make my own living. I have a really good boyfriend, he said I could stay with him for a few days…but I don’t know what I should do… I feel…lost.

Answer #1

did you ever think that maybe your family might be jealous or your freedom. they are prob working and got their commitments. and you are at college starting a life for yourself. they prob are moaning at your for a reason. they wouldnt be moaning for none at all. maybe your sister is jealous of you also. thats why she calls you names.just explain to them how you feel. and get a part time job and save up and move out. and its not unusual for family to make a mess and not tidy it., there is 5 people living in my house and only me and my mom clean it., and no one says thank you. its not un heard of

Answer #2

Have you done it now? Have you left and living on your Own or with your Boyfriend?

Answer #3

No…things are better cause I’m rarely here because of school and plus I have a job now. And me and him are working on getting a place together!

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