What should I be?

I want to change my personalty. I just don’t know what to change it to. I mean, I’m quite, sweet, and helpful. Should I change or should I be different? If I should be different why and what should I be? If not why not?

Answer #1

I totally agree, I mean I don’t get a lot of boyfriends but I have a lot of friends. I agree with ashlyn_elizabeth.

Answer #2

be yourself!!!

Answer #3

Agreed, why would you wanna change? That’s ridiculous =)

Answer #4

Be yourself… Thats the best to do

Answer #5

You guys, shes not asking to completely change herself, shes asking how to IMPROVE herself. If I were you, id just look at what I am happy with in my personality, and what I am not..and change what you are not…for instance, you say you are helpful, well thats good so keep that, but you say you are quiet, and being quiet and reserved can really make you miss out on oppertunities, so I would try being more outgoing, and speaking up and stating what you feel and always trying to be the leader of a group..just assess yourself! And dont listen to the people who say “BE YOURSELF!” because people change, and some people change unknowingly and others recognize the need to change and do it. If you arent happy with where you are, then this is clearly not who you are meant to be.

Answer #6

be yourself would you rather find a boy who falls in love with your REAL personality or one who falls in love with a face you put on or a show you put on to impress him? no one really wants to be with someone who doesnt act like themselves and theres no point in faking a personality for the rest of your life it would be completely stupid just be yourself YOUR personality is fine for YOU

Answer #7

everyone says “be yourself”. I understand how you are feeling. not everyone knows exactly who they are. you can’t actually change who you are but you can try to change your moods. it seems like you are feeling a little insecure with who you are. just try to be happy and you will find being yourself will be a lot more fun.

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