What should he do?Break up with her?

Okayy so my friend john and my friend madi started going out 2months ago. John has liked madi for many years now. Many guys like madi, and are always flirting with her. Okayy, so this other guy kaleb, is always flirting with her also. Today, she had something on her jeans,and was showing somebody, and kaleb said he couldnt see, so he went to see, and instead of looking at her jeans, he looked down her shirt. In life skills, he had slapped her butt, but had said sorry first so she knows it was on purpose. this all happened while john and I were at an orchestra thing all day. Madi had been wondering if she should tell him. He found out from another guy. Madi and john are always arguing about these other guys that flirtt and like her. She always has like 5guys sitting with her at the lunch table, and all of them like her. John doesnt want to, but he hates all this, and is thinking about breaking up with her. Should he??Why or why not.

Answer #1

I cant tell you whether he should or shouldnt break up with her. but I can give you some pros and cons.

pro break up>>

they have been going out for only 2 months and already arguying and having issues. something that is suppose to slowly happen not until after month 3!!

mady is disrespecting john by allowing her guy friends to do such things.

mady is a flirt and tends to not know what a girlfriend should do or not.

mady is not going to stop being friends with those guys. for they are her “friends”>> also it would be very difficult for her to change her flirtacious attitude.

john and mady are already having trust issues.

against breakup>>

mady has 5 other guys or more chasing after her, and in the end of the day she is still with JOHN.

relationships are suppose to be work. although theirs is being already a lot of trouble, john needs to decide if mady is worth it??

LOOK in the end >> john wants a girlfriend something apparently mady doesnt seem to know how to be it, she needs to learn she is no longer single and cant be allowing such things . for its not only disrespecting her man but what they have!!! if mady was in his shoes she wouldnt like what was going on either and would break up with him most likely. for what person wants to have other people all over their man/woman and touching them and their love one allowing it??? NO1 !!this relationship in my opinion is going to end bad regardless of whether he breaks up with her now or later.. for they couldnt even make it 2months w/out problems. something all couples usually can do. for its the time when the couple is trying hardest. and is tyring to please their lover as much as possible. its like a grace period!!

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