What's up with this guy?

There’s this guy on my bus, his name is Eric. He always does these weird things like once (he was sitting at the back of the bus) I turned around in my seat to see who was left on the bus and I looked at him. He was listening to his Ipod, shaking his head to the music. He caught my eye and bit his bottom lip…

  He gets off of the bus a few stops before me and whenever he is going down the aisle, (he always sits in the back), he always either:

touches my coat tries to unplug my headphones from my MP3 player pats my head etc… He always turns around to see how I react after he does it, then he smiles. Keep in mind, he doesn’t do this everyday, but he does it often enough (every few days).

 Today was a new one: As he was getting off the bus, he came up behind me and ran one of his fingers along the back of my neck o.0. 

I need a guy’s opinon, as well as girls who this has happened to. My question is WHY IS HE DOING THIS?!

Answer #1

Possible: he likes you and doesn’t know how to express - he noticed one time when he did something it really got to you, so maybe he enjoys bugging you - these are the only ones that come to mind - seems harmless but any more aggressive, make things clear or report if needed…Take care !!

Answer #2

This kid just wants you to like him. It is unclear to me whether he likes you or not, but he is attempting to gain your affection through physical contact. To him physical contact is the highest bid in this game he is playing with you. He also sees his mouth as a seductive tool (eg: biting his lip, smiling). He believes you like him and he continues this behaviour as if he were watering a seed he planted. He definately has patience and will wait for it.

But thats just my take lol

Answer #3

I think he is still thinkin like a little boy … you know like in elementary when guys like you they would always show it by like hitting you or something .. I think its the same thing but just like teasing you … and they do that to get your attention… so yeah he probably is crushing on you or somethin … lol but yeah that what I think

Answer #4

oh my!!! that’s creepy! do you talk to him or anything? like… do you “know” Eric?… perhaps he dose like you… and as cmjcarcam has said, he just has a CREEPY way of showing it… a real forward and physical way! - if you don’t like him… you really shouldn’t lead him on by doing nothing hon! - you need to tell him to lay off!

Answer #5

he was in my middle school last year and he knew my brother. he’s kind of talked to me like once or twice, but it’s like “what are u looking at?” kind of talk

Answer #6

either he likes you or he just likes messing with u I just dont no if he likes you cause if he did he would just talk 2 you because if was shy I dont think he would be putting his hands on u
hes probably attracted 2 you but does not want a relationship
I think he talks 2 a lot of gurls and could have a gurlfriend
but if you really want 2 no ask him
maybe you should start by saying hi 2 him or smiling at him

Answer #7

most probably he likes you guys are weird ,or may be just the ones that like me, I m a magnet for weird boys adn 40% of the tiem it ends bad, oh whatever, is pretty-posible he likes you, I don’t think he is creepy at all, what he does, creepy would be this guy I met who would see me at schoo, in 10 grade and throw the ballat me in valley everytime I passedtaht’s creepy he was weird a nice-kinda wird.

Answer #8

Awww Puppy Love, how sweeet!!!

He Definately likes you but is shy I think & the only way he can show you how he feels about you is by doing the things he does!

if you like him enough, next time he does anything like that where your eyes meet & he smiles @ you, Smile back @ him! & then then next day sit in the back where he is & maybe a conversation will start & let things go from there!

all the best & please let us know what happens, its cute, its like a series & now I cant wait for next update!!

Answer #9

Haha… This guy does that stuff to me too… It’s creepy huh?

He likes you ALLOT! Lol. =]

He does that “What are you looking at?” talk at school and stuff so he’ll seem cool, and like he doesn’t like you. (When he really does)… So don’t worry about it. That finger thing was kinda a sign to show that he’s getting to know you/like you better.. And after a little bit, he’s going to sit by you, ask you out, etc… Or stop completely and hassle some other girl, whether you like it or not.

:)

Answer #10

He Likes You :D

Awww (:

But He Seems Creepy X(

Answer #11

lol, srry people, made a typo I didn’t notice. his name is ERIN

Answer #12

not much of a like but more of a lust…

careful, he’s harassing you

Answer #13

lol, dizz, ty. I almost ALWAYS sit in the front, he does this as he’s gettin off:)

Answer #14

im with cmjcacam on this!

Answer #15

oh wow, thanz guys. and wow, Liberty, tell me more:)

Answer #16

o_0

yeah I agree. he likes you.

Answer #17

C’mon are you serious??? Its obvious, he want to f**k you.

Answer #18

C’mon are you serious??? Its obvious, he want to f**k you.

Answer #19

he likes you he just has a weird way of showing it lol a CREEPY way of showing it hahha

Answer #20

he wants you .friikin bad. ; )

Answer #21

lol, thanx:) I’ll keep you posted. btw, today, I was reading on the bus and he passed on his way out and was like “That book is boring. I read it like 5 times.” First, LIAR!, second, HOW DARE HE CALL ECLIPSE BORING?!

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