What next Ladies???

She took me out (& wanted to pay) for a nice pub lunch and I asked her for dinner the next weekend…she says yes…I also asked her to travel with me to Africa in a few months for an adventure…and she said yes…I have known her for over 10 years and she knows I am very keen on her…and she’s said before that she likes me and wouldn’t be going for dinner otherwise…Does she like me though??? What is she thinking maybe??? Shall I just play it slow and easy and enjoy the company and see where it leads?? Adice Girls please…

Answer #1

Um, YES! Trust me, a girl wouldn’t agree to go to Africa with you if she didn’t like you. Enjoy her company and have fun. She likes you. Just keep doing what you’ve been doing because it’s obviously worked for this long and if she didn’t like you she would have left by now.

Answer #2

Yes and yes! You said it yourself: she said wouldn´t go out with you unless she´s interested. Her words are good as gold. So she obviously likes you (10 years is enough time to make up her mind about that!) and if she´s saying yes, she´s thinking YES! If she´s already dreaming of an african safari with you, it´s an excelent sign that she can see a future together. At the same time, the beauty in the relationship is letting it grow at it´s own pace. Feel it, let it breathe and as you said see where it leads.

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