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While we were on the phone last night , she was over her moms friends house babysitting , and the womans oldest son came home and she started playing music with the volume high and talk'in flirtly with the the oldest son , then the oldest son got on the computer and she was like move let me sit down in a joking flirtly why . Then the son said',"man you heavy ". Now I thought about it for a min and then realize she wa sitting on hes lap. So I say "if you get off that boy lap ".then she said she wasn't she standing up. I was like dont lie 2 me . And she said iwas sitting on he Knee , but way you tripp'in Its not like I was sitting on he's thing ", but I felt like she was advertising it. So we stayed on the phone argue'in And she told me if I would have said get off his lap and left it at that she would have actully listen to me , Because when I drag it out and stay mad at her all night . she just ignores me . But I feel like I should have never had to tell her not to sit on someone "Knee" in the first place . so what do you think she was thinking , And how should I go about handl'in this should I just let it go , try to understand her , or just let her do her , And I'll just do me and we stay together?
Dear caliboym2008, It is clear that you are not ready for a committed relationship. It's time to stop turning the tables and look at your responsibilities in this relationship...If someone is treating you badly like cheating, flirting, staying mad etc. then it is your responsibility to not let others treat you this way. At this point I would back away from this relationship and others until you become more mature and understand that people treat you the way you let them. Sue...good luck
You really have to consider your own needs in this realtionship, you seem to care more about her needs then your own and she shoves all of it right back in your face! I know that there is a girl out there who will appreciate and love everything you do. So do what is really in the best interest of yourself instead because all the time you waste with her , you could have spent it with someone who actually respects you!
