What is the least harsh thing to do when turning down a guy?

You don’t have to make anyone understand anything. If you don’t want a boyfriend you don’t have to have one, simple as that. Just be polite and say “no.” Anyone who tries to pressure you and make you feel bad for turning them down is not someone you want to share your life with anyway.

try and tell em that you arent ready for a relationship. don’t make something up haha. just be straight forward with it. most guys will understand. but just turn a guy down then a week later have a boyfriend you no haha

Or…you can use some excuses, Tell them you are kinda seeing somebody already… You are sooo busy with school stuff that it wont be fair, you wont have time for them lol… Your parents are really strict and won’t let you go out for now… You are not ready for anything serious…

I know it is lying…but I think it is ok if you are trying to save someone’s feelings…

If the guys got the guts to ask you out, then they got the guts to take a no as well… if they can’t handle the answer “no” then they shouldn’t have asked you, no matter how much the care about you.

It’s more unfair on you that they ruin the friendship by ignoring you… if they were ready to ask you out, then should be ready to continue like before as if nothing had happened… it’s not your fault nomatter how you try n’ look at it.

It’s understandable that you want to be nice… I don’t feel good about making people sad either… but sometimes it’s necessary to make people sad. Sure if you care about people it often seems more right to let yourself down than them. The least harsh way you can do it, is by saying it to them in a nice calm voice and perhaps add that you’re flattered (IF you are flattered) that they got feelings for you.

pretty much it a risk when a guyz ask a girl out that they like because if theyy get rejected of course they gonna take it the wrong way so it best that you tell em your self that you guyz can remain friends but if they dont want to then it der loss soon ull find out when you want a boyfriend just takes time and ull know that you like da guy back when he duz somethin interestin that you like so yea