It's a really personal question but I'm curious to see different gender's opinions and how they play out. So let's put down our social guards and answer...
Guys: How important is it to you for your female partner to orgasm?
Gals: How many times have you faked an orgasm?
For a guy, The female orgasim is very important as it gives him more confidence in himself as a man. Not being able to get your partner the her point of climax is a real knock over the head to our egos and other psychological breakdowns in the bedroom. Pleasing a women is one of the most important things in the sexual side of the relationship to most guys, not how many time did "I" climax and how many different possitions I did it in and for how long I went on for. All those come after getting your partner to climax. PS: I think girls who fake org**ms are just plain down nasty people :-(. It's like saying I love you and not meaning it.
There are so many different ways for a woman to have an orgasm, I honestly think it's just easier for her to "get off" before I do. When I was younger, I never realized a woman doesn't need to be penetrated to orgasm. Now, of course, I know differently. I date a girl who gets close to an orgasm just from kissing and fondling her breasts, which is great for me because I love doing that anyway.
I believe it is important for her to first and if she cums I try to go for 2. I like her to cum. I can pretty easy, but I want her to enjoy the experience. To me it is the whole expereince not just the orgasm but the journey t oget there.
For a male the female's orgasn is an imortant confirmation of his own performance. That makes his ego wider and enhance his self esteem. And af course enhance the sexual pleasure also.
as a male I think that it is important, I have only ever finished once before she did :/
I was a bit embarassed, but its a good thing im good at foreplay, so I can make her happy =]
...onyl once but I want him to feel like he was doin a good job because it was his first time to do it adn I've had better so it didnt turn me on enought to have an orgasm...
I make it a point for 'her' to finish first. The bedroom is one of the only places where I'm NOT selfish...
Good for you heather! (I've never faked one either... considered it... but never faked it.)
I have never faked an orgasm... I don't have to!
...especially if you can synchronize.