What is some good advice to make him more nice?

I feel sorry for you. Not because you have one of the worst boyfriends imaginable, but because you can’t seem to realize it. Why are you not strong enough to break up with him? Don’t play the innocent victim here. You’re obsessed with him, absolutely and completely obsessed. He treats you like dirt and you know it, but you don’t break up with him. He’s using you, toying with you, taking advantage of your weakness and you don’t break up with him. Ok, so he makes you feel happy sometimes. Does that compensate for the other 99% of the time that he makes you feel like you don’t want to wake up in the morning? I don’t think so! Seriously, dump him and regain some of your dignity because you know what? Right now, he knows that he has you in the palm of his hand and that you’re not going to do anything about it. He leaves as he pleases and knows that you will be there waiting for him when he eventually decides to return. Face reality. Respect yourself. And Good Lord, stop making excuses.

Tommrow in school, completly ignore him. Because I bet hell still try to talk to you, so don’t. Give him a taste of what it would be like if you really wernt with him, if he “loves” you like he claims to(hard to believe he can treat you like that if he “loves” you) than it will scare him andz make him think what it would be like to not have you in his life. So ignore him, and as hard as it may seem, act like it doesn’t bother you, atleast not in front of him. Don’t seem down in front of him. Because than he’ll know he has you where he wants you. Don’t seem vunerable. But I’m so sorry you have to have a heartless boyfriend like him:( If you need anyone to talk to, fun mail me!

Hi, your advice really made me think. Idont know why I cant let go.. im in such a hard situation. he does all thsi and I still wanna be with him so bad. tomorrow in school I don’t know what to do becaues hell be happy and ill be upset… I called him before upset saying why are yu like this and he said he doesnt do anything and he was guan block my number if I called again.. I dont know how to handle this situation and yhouve given me the best advice so far. I wanna be able to scare him once before I completely end it. someitmes I feel like he cant control himself because its liek hes two differnt people. hell say how we have somthing so special and hes so in love with me and he wont find another girl like me and then he threathens me that hes guna talk to other girls and stuff.. what should I do to scare him and what do I do in shcool tomorrow :(