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basically, my girlfriend of 8 months louise, works for my dads company selling sky insurance over the phone, she is the only girl in the office, and 7 or 8 other boys work there, I dont work there I work somewhere else. the thing is, my best friend works there, jake. and I feel he fancys my girl and keep flirting with her, she comes home, with pen marks allover her, saying,. "me and jake had pen fight" and the other boys in the office also mess about with her, im not saying anything is going on, but I dont trust her and my best friend together, they seem to have this chemistry, they even mess about and flirt infront of me, hitting eachother etc, joking and fooling around, am I paranoid or is this something to be worried about? any responses would be much appreciated.
Ditto. This girl is twisting around your head. Don't go "basket case" on her. Just be the bigger man and tell her that things just aren't working out for you. There are millions of single women out there waiting for "mr. right" to come riding in and sweep her up. All women are a little different, but before I finally settled down I found that there was something about any female that was worth digging in to. Show your interested in who they are and they reciprocate.
Oh, and let your "best friend" know that you would appreciate him not picking her up on the rebound unless he can profess some sort of serious feelings for this girl. If he does have serious feelings.. well I will let you ponder your own relationships after that.
Bottom line: Ditch her. Find a better one for you that doesn't have you mistrusting her so much.
Maybe you are not paranoid but certainly jealous of other's good mood. It is pity you do not work in such a good company. OK, neither I do not have such a good company where I work. But in your place I would go out with your friend and g/f and would join the good mood plays. Well, even a 3some can come out form this, but that is much better then the jealousy. I think your friend and g/f are in good bud-like friendship. Join them.
Dear mmtuk, From reading both your questions what I get is you don't trust her with good cause and you've seen her bad behaviour first hand..So why is she still your girlfriend and why are you asking what to do?? You need to end this relationship and move on. She is not the type of girl you are interesting in dating so why are you?? Get on with your life. Sue..good luck
