What is my girl friend?

When I got closer to my girl friend I found she was not virgin even I inserted my middle finger easily and then I asked her about her affairs then she replied me that she had sex only once in her life but I believe she is ling to me because my middle finger inserted very easily so she must have lots of affair. Please guide me for right way.

Answer #1

Look, just because she isn’t as tight as YOU want her to be doesn’t mean that she has had sex with plenty of people. Think about how that would make her feel if you said something like that to her. Its wrong and downgrading. You prob just have small fingers. Some people are gonna be looser than others. That doesn’t mean that you leave her because you think she has had sex with lots of people. If she says that she only had sex with one person, you need to have trust and faith in her. Don’t be like all those other jerks and spread nasty names about her and had sex with a lot of people because she is loose. Its wrong. Just trust her. If you don’t like how it is, then don’t do nothing.

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Answer #2

Even if she’s never had sex and never used tampons, you could probably do that. It doesn’t mean anything.

I agree with the statement: ‘Just by fingering a girl, you can’t tell how many guys she has slept with.’ I mean, it’s not like you can put your finger up there, feel around and go ‘Oh, you’ve slept with four people, my finger says so!’

Answer #3

ok listen. if a girl had sex even just ONCE youcan do that. its just the fact that her hymen was broken. (aka her cherry was popped) and after that its easy going. The “tightness” a guy feels is how aroused the girl is. if a girl is veerrryy aroused then shell be “looser” then just being slightly aroused. the vagina walls are constantly closed until something is inserted. when a girl gets aroused for sex, her vaginal walls will become wet and the muscles will relax, making it easier to insert the penis.

so basicly a girl is never “tight” and is never “loose” it all depends on how aroused she is. and just by fingering a girl you cant tell hwo many guys she has slept with. get real man.

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