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I am such a weak person. And its like every time I look at a girl whos pretty I get offended because I dont look like her and that no guy will ever want me.and so its like I cant take it and I try to be like everyone else and not me. I want to be me and pretty at the same time. Can you help me?
God made you the way you are. Dont compare yourself with others! theres always someone whos gonna be better looking than you. The same goes for preety girls too, actually! TONS of guys find me cute; but sometimes even I look at celebrities that are skinnier than I am, or she's got a better looking butt, and sometimes I feel...fat. Even though I'm not! And there I go, concious of what I eat, try to burn more calories than yesterday, or whatever. Then, when I feel good about myself again, TADA!!! another good looking girl shows up, and I try to catch up with her. It's a miserable life, hun. I learned from that. It leads to nowhere. You feel awful again about your looks, and youre never satisfied (this same consept goes also 4 material things)
Anyways, stop comaring yourself to others. You'll never b happy that way. God will provide you a guy who will love you 4 who you are, and not 4 what you look like. Maybe you wont find him at the moment, but just be patient God knows when itll happen.
(notice that therse alotta celebrities that are divorced). Beauty eventually fades away.And beauty is not the only reason guys get married. (and if they do ...sheesh)
try to build up your self esteam and confidence.try to be more active and happier do things that you enjoy and stop worrying about what people think of you and how you look.remember if you don't like something about urself or think you can do something than how do expect somebody else would.love urself,tell urself your beautiful.no one can stop you from doing something but you yes their will be obstacles but god will see you threw just believe in him and in urself.good luck ;D
Well calling yourself a weak person is not exactly helpful. So cut it out. You feel insecure sometimes. It is ok. And there's no one look every guy goes for. So not looking a certain way does not mean anything. Just talk yourself through it when you start being not nice to yourself.
Well, I dont care how people see me. This is me and if you dont like it than stay out of my way, thats what I say. and someone will ask you out if its in tomorrow or even 5 years, someone will.
its like weird because guys are actually interested in me but I cant get myself to realize that im pretty.
Just get active and try not to look in the mirror so much cause that's when you attack..you.
You probably are pretty. Just not confident.
