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My friend doesnt know her boyfriend is cheating on her again bu ti do what should I do tell her or not?
This is a tricky one... a very very tricky one. You need to approach her with more than just he's cheating. For instance, proof. You can easily say I'm your best friend and I know he's cheating, but if the girl loves the guy... then she may not believe you.
She deserves to know. However, if the guy is a jerk he would try to play it off as you're just jealous of her being happy or something like that. Basically making sound like you made it up. Then he wins, and you lose a best friend.
Tell her, but proceed carefully. If you think she will believe you over him. Then do it. But be prepared to hurt her, and tell her how you know.
She's your best friend, and you owe it to her to be honest. Though she may not appreciate, or believe, what you are telling her, in the end it she will be grateful. You don't want her to get more attatched and drug further into the relationship only to find that it is a bust.
Plus, later on if she finds out you knew, and didn't tell her, she might freak out on you for keeping secrets. Either way things will spiral and people will be hurt, but it would be better coming from you than finding out the hard way.
Just make sure you are 100% sure before you even hint at it. I wish you luck.
She's your friend and you owe it to her to be honest.
Tell her what you know, but be prepared for her to be angry or upset.
AGAIN!?!?!? make sure you really postively know that he is cheating on her if I were her I would be glad that you told me!!!
