what if me and her are not ment for each other?

(( sorry if this long)) this girl I knew for like over a year and a half. okay me and her fell in love ect. ect. we not dating currently. but last night we was talking about our relationship and our future. we both believe we should be together.but she just told me something that just shook my world. we was talking about how she be at party. shaking her booty on boys when she first meet them. and I ask her why. and she said “” just 2 feel their penis on me (kinda turns me on just 2 feel it) and its fun””. I mean dang that just shook my whole world. I didn’t think she was that type of girl you know.come to find out this. I don’t know what to think now. Is she a “tool” (if you know what I mean). she a virgin. but still that don’t change the fact. of what she just said… I don’t think I want to be with a girl who do that. like seriously “ just to feel it on her”.that mess up and many many ways.she never show any signs that she was like that. I don’t know what to do. I love her with all my heart. but after what I just found out. that just threw me me into a whirlpool.I don’t know what to think. I don’t know what to do. or nothing. someone wanna give me some advice please? I really really need it thank

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what if me and her are not ment for each other?

Answer #1

then work some thing out I don’t know what really but im sure you can come up with some thing

Answer #2

If you are not ment then you are not ment. There is people I our life’s that come and go and meaby this is a go. Also meaby the girl needs so me stpace, meaby she is just that caind of girl who loves you and wont trade you for anathing but you know she does her own thing and she does not let nobobdy demand her to who she is. Just talk to her about it and let her know how you are feeling and let her know that it felst you know wrong having her tell you that… all people are difrents in relationships meaby she can stop it because she really loves you, so all you have to do is cominicate and know what eachone wants.

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #3

I know. I would hate to lose her. but I don’t know if I can over look this. and keep wanting her to be my wife in the future. this is some shocking new

Answer #4

well … if your going to this party, you should keep and eye on her but ask her to see if she really cares about you, she wouldnt go around grinding people

Answer #5

there has to be more negitives if its really not ment to be . but that seems pretty slutty of her to do something like that… ((sorry dont mean to talk about her like that, just being truthful))

Answer #6

but as the looks of it the trust level is gonna be crucial and this way she’ll have to prove herself, if she’s really worth it..

Answer #7

well thank for trying to help me :)

Answer #8

cough* well we live in different states as each other. right now

Answer #9

I feel the same way as you grill. this is a big lump in our relationship

Answer #10

I think If in your heart you really love her..you both can pass this and move on..