So I like this guy and weve been friends wit benefits foor awhile now.he wants to finger me and I want himm to too but im scared ill be too tight and it wll hurt. Same with sex. Hes not a virgin and I am so im scared he will compare me to other girls.,,also hes mixed and he has a big d*ck and once agaiin cared ill be to tight? Ahhh pls answer
Being scared is a natural reaction, that basically says you're too young for making this important step.
There is no such thing as being "too tight." Your body is made the way it is, and everyone's body is different. Your vagina is designed for sex and it will accept a finger, a penis (or a lot of other things if you get really playful). It will probably be tight at first, and it may hurt or even bleed some. Those are uncomfortable, but they are natural as well and will go away.
If you're scared, then wait. There is no reason that you SHOULD be having sex. If you are completely committed to this guy (like practically married), then having sex may be a natural way to show that, and it may be worth the initial discomfort. But if not, then wait. If he is pressuring you into it, then he's not the right person.
hehe, same for me, my boyfriend is black and am a virgin, he tried to finger me but couldn't really get it inside and the pain was horrible he had to stop. and am 17! I bled a little though he didnt quiet get his finger in. so yes be afraid be very afraid.lol