What happens if you are falling for a guy you used to like?

So, heres the scoop. When I was a freshman in highschool this senior and me got pretty darn close. I liked him a lot and whenever he would talk to one of my freshman friends, I would get jealous. The problem was he had a girlfriend of 2 years that time too..After he graduated we didnt talk for awhile..but for the last couple of months we have been talking non-stop. The feelings are coming back but hes 19 and I’m 17. OH! and he broke it off with his girlfriend of 4 years last month. He told me he is crazy for this new girl he has in a class with him and I got kind of..well I wouldnt say mad..I would say, just wishing I was older. What should I do?!

Answer #1

im sorry to say it.. but sad version, you have to let him go. I was in love with this girl for over a year but she had no feelings for me. we got very close and all, and we even were cute and cuddly close too but she still had no feelings for me. I had to let her go. it was difficult, but at the same time it was easy. 17 - 19 is not a big age gap so I wouldnt even worry about that. you do however have another option. you could tell him about the way you feel. if he feels the same way back, then you can start something. if he doesnt, then you have to hope that he is mature enough to move on with it and still be friends with you regardless. just be carefull because it doesn’t seem like he is interested. I graduated from high school last year and I have a current friend who is in grade 9. when I was in grade 12 (last year) she told me that she liked me and had feelings for her. I honestly didn’t. (plus she was 13 and I was 17) we didnt talk for maybe 3 weeks. now, we are back to being close friends and both of us honestly don’t have any feelings (in that way) for each other. so if you do tell him how you feel, it may not turn out to be a bad thing, but more of a good thing (weather he likes you or not) just be prepared to let him go. always look at your options. keep your eyes open for other guys you could possibly date. if you do that and you’re optimistic about it, you will be okay.

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