What happens if I cum when being fingered?

You may or may not orgasm. (Many women do not orgasm until they are in their twenties, but even if that is you, you can still enjoy the togetherness. Guys can orgasm at the onset of puberty, women take a while before they get there. ) The main thing is to have a good relationship where you are comfortable with each other. He needs to be gentle and you need to give him some direction because guys have NO CLUE how to please a women. Plus EVERY woman is different, so anything he knows (or THINKS he knows) probably doesn’t apply to you. HINT: make the direction in the form of “Sweetie, that feels good, but I think if you would try [whatever] it would be awesome” - substitute your own words.

It won’t hurt unless your hymen is still intact and he pushes against it hard (and even then it might not hurt). OR if his fingernails are rough, or he is too vigorous it may make you sore.

If you bleed from a ruptured hymen (possible) it’s normal. If you bleed just from having sex or an orgasm, that is also normal for some women. If you bleed from rough fingernails or too vigorous a job on his part, he needs to slow down. But the bleeding will be minor and no big deal. The blood will not hurt either of you

Hope this helps.