Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Sex Questions

How can I change things between us?

I have been with my fiance for over 4years. In the begining he was super sweet and charming, not to mention wanted to have intercourse numerous times a day. Then we moved in together. Everything is different. I still love hime but the intimacy is happening maybe once a week or less and when we are home with eachother unless I am giving him a oral favors it is like I’m not even here. What can I do to improve the love making and get some attention? I try to initiate the sx and be aggressive and things like that but it doesn’t seem to make a difference. He would rather get a Blo Jb than to have sx. Why?

Beautiful Test
Become an Expert →
Answer #1

He is lazy to fck you, so you should start to think of finding an other man, at least for sx. In fact he acts like an older husband, and not like a fiancee.

Answer #2

It sounds like, once you moved in together, he started taking you for granted, if not entirely, at least sexually. Have you discussed your concerns with him? It may be something simple, like extra stress.

Although this seems ironic, stop always being the one who goes to him. Make him come to you. It seems weird, but it should work. Keep your chin up, things will get better! Good luck!

More Like This
Advisor

Sex

Sex education, Intimacy, Relationship advice

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

MyMuse India

Intimate wellness, Personal care, Beauty