My boyfriend just told me that he has trouble getting erections now because he's been holding back around me a while. He also says whenever he holds back he gets really bad stomach aches. And then he also said he's never ejaculated in his life. He is a virgin also and so am I. Well anyways is any of this healthy? Is this what normal teenage guys do?
Hey.. I meant the pain is radiating not radiation...lol..can't type sometimes.
.He needs to see someone about this. His problem is not physical but a mental one. This type of problem is usually learned in childhood by traumatic or scary situations He probably witnessed some pornographic material as a young boy and was traumatized.
Another thing could be that you guys are getting more close to each other and there may be in his mind the possibility of having to be sexual in your presence and he is scared of not measuring up to your expectations and he is producing all of this to protect himself. Sorry but he needs to see a regular doctor first and take it from there.
Yes it is very normal for teenage boys, who want you to have sex with them.
Yes there is such a thing as blue balls but, "blue balls" is often used as an excuse to get girls to sleep with them. When I was around 13, my friends boyfriend tried using this excuse using a lot of the terms you decribe your boy using up there. He also said that masturbation disgusted him when it was recommended and hinted often that he was a virgin and no longer wanted to be one.
Your bloke is probably different but I'm just saying be on the look out for these "hints" and if he comes up to you complaining again just tell him to go have a wank. And that you have a headache.
I think is unhealthy because it could create erectile performance issues or premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation problems.
Is he doing that because of religion? Or what is his view on masturbation? He may have a strong but unhealthy mental block on masturbating and now is affecting his ability to achieve erections.
Young men have wet dreams if they hold it for too long so sometimes is out of his control to ejaculate and the pain he is getting is normal if you hold it for too long. That pain is radiation from his scrotum and prostate and is moving up. Some guys also feel that pain in their lower back sometimes.
Ha! Yes my ''bloke'' is honestly, a ridiculous gentleman! We are planning to have sex this weekend to tell ya the truth hehe... Oh yes I did tell him to masturbate and again he said it's disgusting. I think maybe he was traumatized sometime in his life because his dad has anger problems; maybe that has something to do with it? He used to be afraid of not living up to my expectations but not so much anymore. Maybe this kind of problem would only take time ? I highly doubt he's going to want to talk to a doctor. It might be embarrassing to hear from, pretty much, a stranger telling him to go home and masturbate. :D
First of all, that pain is blue balls. If he masturbates, the pain will be relieved. It comes from being aroused for to long with no release. If you want more information on blue balls, look it up because I'm not about to type up a bunch of info that you might not even care about.
Also, about the masturbation. Chances are hes lying because he'd be ashamed to admit it to you, even when you say its fine. Let him release once in a while or tell him to go play with himself to avoid the pain.
Actually he thinks all of it is disgusting. He's never masturbated. It's nothing to do with religion. Wait so is his problem permanent D: ? What should he do to stop it?
