What guy do I choose, help?

Lots of reading to do. But your help is really appreciated :/ So here is the situation, there is this guy that I have been messing with for like a year. We went out for 6 months and then I broke up with him and then a mont ago we realized we cudnt be without each other but we didnt want to go out because of situations. So then we were “friends with benefits” even though we were acting like we were going out, so then a few months ago I asked about going out and he said he didnt want to and that there were low chances that we wud ever go out again so I shudnt get my hopes high. So I tried moving on and I met this other guy that I dont really know but I have been talking to him for like 2 months and I just get butterflies whenever im around him. So now the other guy wants to go out, and I have to decide tonight whether or not I want to go out with him again or stay friends with him and see how it goes with the other guy.

And here are the pros and cons: 1st guy: I am almost completely comfortable with him, and we just click like we can talk about anything. Although, hes often an asshole to me for the past few months at least. And he goes to a different school so I only see him once a week…

2nd guy: he goes to my school and he is a year older then me, I get excited to see him and everything but I dont really know much about him. I hear he gets protective and obsessive with girls and gets jealous a lot, and that kinda interfers with the fact that I have a bunch of close guy friends. I would get to see him everyday which I would like, but I dont think I would go out with him for another month or so to get to know him more.

Truth is, I love guy #1 because we have been through so much together, but hes hurting me constantly. By not being able to see him very much and some of the things he says. And doesnt say. Even if he is the right one for me, the circumstances are hard for me. Im really stuck, and these feelings have been going on for a while. Please help me! It would literally mean so much to me :( thank you