What gives with my best friend's parents?

Okay well see my boyfriend and I live in different states him in geogria me in maine. My bestfriends parents are naggin me for it they say I’m desprate and pathetic because I’m going out with him.. My parents and his parents agree and talk to eachother and I talk to his parents and he talks to mine. What is there deal? I mean one it’s none of there bizness to get into it. So what if he lives far away that just means that were not tempped to do things before marriage. It’s not like it’s our parents who dissagree … well anyways because of this theysay she can’t talk to me anymore… I dont want to lose a friend but I dont want to lose the only guy that ever understood me and didn’t take me a a toy .. he takes me as a human.. the true love of his. We already are making plans to see eachother over vacation so what’s the problem??? I just dont understand what’s so wrong with it… I mean were doing fine the only thing we miss are hugs but we just say hug and hug the covers or a pillow and pertend it’s the other… so nothing is wrong with our relationship…