What does a guy mean when he says "let's not be official yet"?

I’ve recently asked a guy to be my boyfriend and he said yeah but “let’s not make it official yet”, what does that mean?

Answer #1

it means hes going out with you but dosent want anyone to no about you because he dosent want to be seen in public or mybee he just dosent like you and is ashamed to call you his girlfriend

Answer #2

It means “I’m not sure I want to be committed to you, so how about we hold off until I run through my other options”. I am not saying he is a jerk, but I’d bet you that he is still open to the possibility of someone else. Maybe say to him “Hey, its been fun but I don’t really enjoy casual relationships. See you round!” Then leave it at that. He will either commit or he wont.

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